am i losing my sass because i’m trying to be too nice online?

am i losing my sass because i’m trying to be too nice online?

If you’re one of my followers who has stuck with me since my Script days, and maybe that’s why you started reading my blog, you may know about the sass queen title bestowed onto me within that fanbase. I half bestowed it on myself, half had it bestowed on me…

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is there a blogging ‘mould’ and do diverse bloggers who don’t conform to it get less opportunities?

is there a blogging ‘mould’ and do diverse bloggers who don’t conform to it get less opportunities?

Discourse in the fashion and blogging industries has, as of late, focused on the lack of diversity in each respective industry. This lack of diversity covers race, class, body shape, age, identity. We’ve seen countless blog posts about it, from both those who fit the mould and those who don’t.…

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is it time to be a bit more selfish and stop thinking of it as a bad thing?

is it time to be a bit more selfish and stop thinking of it as a bad thing?

I am sure I’ve seen a few blog posts on this before, and I’ve always agreed with the concept but never really put it into action because I never noticed it in my own life. Except this week I realised I do way more for my friends than I would…

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the culture of ‘talking to’ someone instead of dating them

the culture of ‘talking to’ someone instead of dating them

Now here’s the thing. I don’t know how many people can relate to this. Is it just a thing that people my age do? And I know a ton of people my age who smoothly transition from ‘talking to’, to dating, to full on relationship, so it can’t even be…

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celebrating the importance of female friendships

celebrating the importance of female friendships

Happy Valentine’s Day! Or, more fitting for this post, Happy Galentine’s Day for yesterday! I’ve been seeing the whole concept of ‘galentine’s day’ on blogs recently and, ngl, I had never heard of it until seeing it thrown around on blogs this year (or maybe I did last year but…

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